Ella Lauser is a new paradigm sexual health and wellness coach, writer, speaker and energetic healer. But perhaps most importantly she is the sister you probably never had!

At an early age, Ella had the unique opportunity to be a confidant and support system for many people. With wisdom, humor, and openness passed down to her from her bisexual grandma, Ella received a rich education. In 2000 at UC Santa Cruz she began The I Want Sex Club (I.W.S.C.) for students who wanted to talk about sex in a non-judgmental, supportive forum. Shortly thereafter, she graduated with a Sociology B.A. from UCLA, and then went on to teach comprehensive sexual health education to high school classrooms throughout Los Angeles Unified School District.

Now, Ella is finally working on a book that will share her insights on sexuality and in the interim she's offering exclusive private one-on-one coaching packages, providing the perfect space for women to become empowered emotionally and sexually, discovering what they want, how to ask for it and most importantly how to receive it. It's her greatest passion to be of service and offer you the tools, understanding and support to check in and be with what you really are, - amazing and beautiful!

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Thursday, April 22, 2010

How To Put On A Male Condom...

It occurred to me recently that a lot of people, of all ages, don't know how to properly use a condom.  When teaching sex ed in 9th grade health classes, this was always the talk that got the most attention from students.  I think it's so crucial to approach sex with truth, humor and open-mindedness.
Now, there are so many varieties of birth control out there, it's up to you to choose what's right for your body, lifetstyle, etc.  however, the male condom seems to be a very happy and readily available option for folks playing with penises.  Being informed is always a good idea, so check out my video below:
 


Oh and one thing I didn't mention in the video is always put the male condom on the penis when it's erect not when it's soft.  Once a girl asked me what to do if the guy is too excited already and cums when the condom is being put on.  Well, not too worry, it's quite common -some guys just don't know their body well enough to control their release and by the time the condom arrives he's on the edge.  Solution, wait about ten - twenty minutes and encourage him and bust out a new condom.  Ouila! 
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